OUR STORY
Why we
stayed.
How
we met
Like many of the great modern love stories, Rachel and Michael’s story started on Hinge. Michael was drawn in by the contradiction in Rachel’s profile: beautiful and creative, with warm, sincere answers, but notably not smiling in a single photo. Rachel was intrigued by a soft confidence she couldn’t quite place, and photos from different corners of the world that suggested he was the kind of person with stories she’d want to hear.
Neither was particularly interested in spending weeks getting to know the other via choppy text exchanges.
They both knew that dating apps could only tell you so much. You couldn’t really know someone until you were sitting across from them.
Michael wasted no time setting up their first date at a nearly empty bar on the Lower East Side, and thankfully, neither of them were disappointed by the offline version. Conversation had no real beginning or end, and there was a strange feeling that they were more like old friends than two people trying to impress each other on a first date. By the end of the night, they discovered they lived just one train stop apart—a small coincidence that would become much more significant a few weeks later.
By their third or fourth date, the pandemic had reached New York, and the city was beginning to shut down around them. Suddenly, a very new relationship required a very serious “we doing this?” conversation. They decided they were. What followed was part courtship, part apocalyptic romance: speed-walking to each other’s apartments before the NYC curfew, sanitizing groceries together, finding obscure films to watch, exchanging their favorite Wayne lyrics and slowly discovering how naturally their lives fit together.
The things that first drew them in, gave way to the things that made them stay.
Rachel found in Michael someone kind, driven, endlessly curious and deeply trustworthy. Michael fell in love with Rachel’s sense of humor and creativity, but even more so with the way she showed up for the people she loved. What began with intrigue became something remarkably uncomplicated: two people who could be entirely themselves together, and who somehow made each other feel even more like themselves in the process
PHOTOGRAPHY BY TRE CREWS